Reddit aita sibling Helping out occasionally is very reasonable, but a lot of people are forced to basically act as a third parent to their siblings and lose out on their childhood. If I found out he had a whole other family WHILE MARRIED to my mother? Well, I'm called Lavaspitter for a reason, I'd make him feel my words for DAYS. AITA for having my son miss his graduating road trip to watch his sibling. I wouldn’t be surprised if the oldest sibling still at home is the same age as you were then. Posted by u/Noshirt2357 - 3,901 votes and 2,162 comments When we met up my dad seem very genuine so I continue seeing him which increased to me seeing 3 times a week. For a 17 yo guy, you have some tact, which is incredibly refreshing and makes me optimistic about the future, so good for you. Keeping it vague for privacy, but essentially one of my step siblings moved out after our parents got married and became a drug addict. James thinks I should have been willing to work with him to figure out a compromise. They'd host family members to celebrate his birthday every year and have me blow the candles every single time because I'm the only sibling. ( NTA, obviously) No kid, let alone adult, should be forced to babysit siblings without a clear time/place agreed (and even some cash/something as a thank you). eciutfveismxrdakneydsfpnsmtxaxtekqizrixnomuxzxkwiwnauxuqymjbgiakchzlou